If I’m terribly honest, I was expecting something
far different. For roller derby, in the
public mindset, comes with its own persona.
That persona often is accompanied by mental images of scantily clad
women, tattooed and hardcore, engaging in violent public acts and elements of
drunken revelry that thumb their nose at mainstream society.
In short, many seem to view roller derby as punk
rock rebellion on eight wheels.
And while there are certainly fringe elements and
occasional points that meet those expectations (every great lie is speckled
with hearty elements of the truth) what we encountered was far from that
stereotype.
Rather, we met people who were kind and caring, who
encouraged their fellow teammates and those rookies coming along with unnatural
ease and affection. Sure, on the track
they were brutal, taking no prisoners, but that bloodthirsty element was left
on the track as they quickly engaged their opponents in good-natured hugs and
high-fiving and gads of photo ops. And
at the after parties, one saw camaraderie as opposed to one-upsmanship, no
matter who had won.
While derby competition is fierce, the passion for
community and the derby family is just as strong.
And the thing that really struck me about that
passion was the roller derby spirit of generosity. Each and every Bradentucky Bomber bout (my
wife’s team) supported a local charity as did those of the Bradenton Derby
Brats (my kiddos’ team.) And when the
HitMen opened up a few months ago with their inaugural bout, the same held
true. These were people who were out to
help and who gave generously, both of their time and of their money.
And that tradition is not something solely held by the
local derby community either. Recently,
while watching the MRDA championships, the announcers had shared the tales of a
skater or two who’d suffered some rather daunting injuries, the likes of which
were going to require tons of money in medical bills. Then they went on to share how in just a few
days of the injuries, some fellow skaters had put together a donation site and
seen great activity in a very short amount of time.
Derby takes care of its own and derby reaches out.
Now my time in derby, particularly that of being
more active, has been rather short but already I feel as though I’ve stepped
into something that’s bigger than me and has embraced me. That’s pretty cool and, because of that
heartbeat, it’s why I feel confident in approaching you with this prospect that
hit me a week ago and which I present to you today.
Just last week I shared about participating in a
walk that helped to raise money for an organization near and dear to my heart,
Easter Seals. For those unaware, Easter
Seals works to help provide aid to children and adults with developmental
disabilities, offering training, education, therapy services, and much, much
more. Our family has been fortunate
enough to work with this population for the past several years and I cannot
tell you how much our lives have been touched by each individual we’ve
encountered. It’s a beautiful population
of people and they have literally changed our lives.
One of the services that our local chapter provides
is through an amazing program called Project Rainbow. Project Rainbow works with the families of
children with these disabilities to provide respite care, offering highly
skilled staff to help provide parents and caregivers some much needed time to
breathe, to get some errands run, or to simply experience some “adult time.” To
that effect, they also provide monthly drop-offs and so much more, providing
these families with great, unexpected challenges a breath of fresh air, hope,
and encouragement.
And they do this all
for free, supported by grants and donations.
One other critical thing that they provide comes
around the holidays as they work with numbers of donors to help provide
Christmas gifts for the children of these families. As you can imagine, the financial burden of
raising a developmentally disabled child can be great and, for some of those
families, the service that Project Rainbow provides is the only thing putting
gifts under the tree.
Yet, this year, that task has become a bit more difficult
as their largest sponsor has had to step away due to a change in ownership and
a halting economy. Leaving Project
Rainbow in a dire place of need to help provide for these children.
I don’t know about you but there’s few things that
get me riled up like the prospect of children not being able to celebrate a
Christmas properly, enjoying a few wonderful surprises underneath the tree.
So here’s what I’m hoping. I’m putting out the call to the roller derby
community worldwide, from southwest Florida and beyond, to step up and to show
the amazing generosity that I know is within each and every one of you. I want the world at large to see the true
heart of derby, the beautiful core of giving within and to change that public
perception of this sport, even if we are still
a little punk rock at heart.Here's the link: http://www.giveforward.com/rescueprojectrainbow




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